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יוסי גורביץ

מחנה קיץ ותהליך ההתבגרות (והניכור)

01.08.09 | תגובה אחת

מייקל גרזון, אחד מכותבי הנאומים של בוש, כותב יפה על משמעותה של עצמאות ילדים מהוריהם

 

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The yearly departure for camp measures the progress of parental irrelevance. Four years ago, the first time my wife and I left our youngest son at sleep-away camp, there was no pretense of bravery on his part. There were only piteous tears, which returned, according to a camp counselor, every night for two weeks. I wanted nothing more than to run to him, to end the trauma we had inflicted and rescue him from independence. But I didn't. Each summer this departure grows easier for him and my older son — and more difficult for me, until my bravery finally fails and all the tears are mine.

So this is the independence we seek for our children — to turn our closest relationships into acquaintances. Of course, I knew this getting into parenthood. But the reality remains shocking. For a time, small hands take your own — children look upward, and you fill their entire universe. They remain, to you, the most important things in the world. To them, over time, you become one important thing among many. And then an occasional visit or phone call. And then a memory, fond or otherwise.

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